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A draft of this post I have created exactly 7 months ago. Then pretty I did not let about the negative relations with mother. He was so strong that I got to my mother that I love her to bits.

I did not finish. But today is a mother’s Day, and I wanted to finish it …

And exactly two months ago I was told that I could lose her … Second time in my life I realized that around turn off the sound …

We with the managing partner were discussing an important project, and I received a message with my mother’s diagnoses in WhatsApp… A little pain in the eye was a brain cyst … My biggest fear in life is almost a reality …

I always knew what I had and had long-awaited. Due to the fact that I was born. My questions, why do not do this moms this is not, she just laughed it off.

When I was 15 years old, I was told that a child was in the family.

The doctor did not notice the most common appendicitis, and had surgery … which we never learned. Pure chance saved … In a military town, organized in the evening for the wives of young officers. On the same day, the father was called from the landfill to say goodbye with his wife …

I do not know what was the name of the surgeon of the military hospital, but I hope that he is in the Heavenly Office will be counted two lives …

Can not say that I was a gift for a mom … Sometimes I got that plus sign in karma, that this gave me of my parents … Especially my mother …

Overall I was very active and curious, I did not know all about it.

You ask, what is my mom so special?

She never raised me like a Princess, but rather relied on my personality. In the 4 years I had a vote in the family councils and listened to me.

It is always felt to me, probably better than I do myself. When she realized that I was interested in read and learn more, then took me to the teacher that we were three months in the first grade and I love to come in second …

She knew when you had to push me a little or to push their parental authority … And thank to this I got a great education …

I always knew that they could come to her for advice or just to talk, she always heard me and give advice, or Express constructive criticism …

But, despite the criticism, I always know that she will be on my side …

In adolescence, when all together put me out, just the thought of my mom drove all suicidal. I knew she’d be mortified … but also knew she was close … And how she could help me through this teenage hell …

Dad always affects its robustness and indefatigable activity. To lie down and read, this is definitely not about her …

I am extremely amazed by its taste and ability to choose and match clothes … Almost my entire wardrobe is matched by her or with her help …

And she skillfully gives us a daddy "magic ass" when we are slowing down a bit

You may have it’s just ideal? But in the sun spots happen … Here, for example, my aunt confidently, the mother of a tyrant in a skirt, who runs his family … Only she can not see that any decision the parents take only after discussing and weighing the pros and cons …

In our relationship, too, was a crisis, and even confrontation. At 16 I went to university, and for the next six years we saw each other not so often …. and then it so happened that we moved in together again …

During this time, I used to live myself, and mom also saw me as a child, which left her at home … She started to repay me the same she had to explain that I was different and that she brought me an individual identity as well, And then mom surprised me most in life …

She stopped me, and began to change her … She heard me and showed such openness to the perception

Now she, of course, is the period of the moms, but I have learned to switch back and remind me that I’m 30 and I decide …

I am grateful that she was born in a new profession.

I was apologized to the management partner and came out … I got my mom’s diagnosis … And then I got myself together and realized that I needed to be strong for her and for dad. ..

I sent dad to grandma, so she did not suspect a thing … Found a good doctor and his the mother was forced to come to Kiev …

For the first time in my life I saw my mother in the eyes of the fire, which was used … He went out … I had cancer, right?!

Doctors, consultations, additional tests and the whole sick cycle … And this is the conclusion that the most terrifying diagnosis was not confirmed … "but" always in such cases, there is …

It’s so scary to go next with her greatest fear and understand that he just drochila, and do not know how …

Let me Your mom will be eternal! And you will be eternal.

Happy mother’s Day !!!

Your Encore

P. S. Thank you all for these lovely words and wishes in the comments !!! We believe, then everything will be fine)))